So, once again I am taking the opportunity to talk about sex toys. As I've mentioned in the past, I think the taboo secrecy of adult toys is ridiculous. As adult humans, sex is a basic need that we all share. Why act like we are not interested or like it's such a shocking topic. Lets get past that all that silliness. I like sex and if I can find more or enhanced enjoyment I'm all for it and I'm willing to share what I've discovered with others.
This post is a look at my most favorite adult toys. Male pleasure products are not commonly discussed so I felt like it was time for me to do my part and share what I've discovered. These items make great gifts and although the Holiday season is over, I still recommend that you share this list with your significant other. You're welcome.
1. Aneros - Helix
Did you know that men are capable of having back to back, extremely intense orgasms just like a woman can? It's true and I can tell you from personal experience that it's pretty incredible. These orgasms are full body, toe curling events that will change you forever once you've been lucky enough to have had the experience. If you are one of those guys that has a macho BS hangup about anal play, I strongly encourage you to get over it. You'll thank me later.
What I like the most about this product is that it's hands free. Once it's in, it gently massages the prostate on it's own, movement is driven by your body gently flexing and relaxing your anal muscles. It gets to the point where the slight movements become involuntary and at that point the orgasms start to come uncontrollably. It's truly amazing.
2. Body wand
Typically vibrators are a woman's best friend. For me, I've found that testicle vibration is a MAJOR erotic turn on for me. This is a great toy to use with a partner. It's an amazing tease and an even more amazing sensation if applied just prior to the point of orgasm.
This particular vibrator is great because its got a rechargeable battery which provides great untethered freedom of movement. It's also pretty powerful. If you get one of these and plan to use it on your balls, start low and work up to an intensity that feels good for you. We own three of these. Hers, mine and one that stays in her suitcase for business travel. You can pick one up on Amazon by clicking here. BodyWand on Amazon.
3. Cock ring
I don't always use a cock ring but when I do, I love it. For me, its a great inexpensive item that makes my erection harder, and it does a fantastic job delaying orgasms...and when you do reach climax it's intensified. If you're a fan of edging or being in a prolonged highly erotic state, a cock ring can be a great addition to your toy collection. I have a few different types of cock rings but my favorite is the adjustable kind. It allows me to get the perfect tightness and is super easy to use. Coming in a close second is the vibrating variety. They provide a great range of pleasurable vibrations that enhance enjoyment for the wearer and his partner.
4. Fleshlight
This toy was a gift from a buddy of mine. (What, doesn't everyone have male friends that give them sex toys as gifts?) When I was a newly divorced guy, my roommate and good friend who happened to also be a male model, had a photo shoot for the company and was given a few "samples" to take home. He gave one to me. I actually left this thing in the box for a few years. Never opened it. For some reason that I don't remember, I eventually opened it up and had a go with it. I loved it! Pity I waited so long to give it a try. On those nights when Mrs Jake is away on business I sometime break this out and have a very pleasurable experience. They're not cheap but they are very worth the price. There are also several stands and brackets available that can hold the toy which provides a nice hands free experience.
5. Boy BUtter - Boy Butter
I consider good lube to be a sex toy enhancer and for that reason it's on my list. Boy Butter is great stuff and in my opinion the best lube on the market. It's all natural, coconut oil based, feels and functions like a silicone based lube but isn't, doesn't "wear out" mid use, cleans up easily with water and best of all it doesn't leave stains. I mean come on. What more do you need?
